Men dating during divorce
Maybe the guy's dad treated his mom like crap and the guy feels like he needs to pick up the slack. Obligation Versus Choice: Unhealthy: The son always feels obligated to see his mom and put her first in front of his plans.While all of these scenarios are heartfelt and while I can understand a guy's need to treat his mother like gold, there are differences between healthy and unhealthy mother son relationships. In other words, he will drop anything if she calls because he feels some kind of guilt.
In terms of being a promise or commitment, you’ve probably heard the quote that “a man is only as good as his word.” There’s truth to that.
Most men look at what they say as a sort of promise or commitment, even if it’s an emotionally based discussion.
So saying what seems like a simple three words can actually like a huge risk, promise or commitment to a guy.
It can feel like a risk since guys generally do not deal well with rejection, especially rejection in a moment of vulnerability.
And I can personally admit that love can make me feel vulnerable and can bring up fears and emotions in me that are more than I’m ready to handle at a given moment.